Why don't NRIs return to India? viral post from Sweden sparks debate
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A thought-provoking post by an Indian man living in Sweden has gone viral, igniting a wider conversation on why many Non-Resident Indians (NRIs) choose to settle abroad rather than return to India.
The discussion began after X user Dr. Rajeshwari Iyer posted a comment highlighting how Indian students contribute to building America, while Chinese students often return to contribute to their homeland. “China builds China. Indians help build America,” she wrote, encouraging reflection within the Indian diaspora.
In response, an NRI named Ankur shared a detailed post outlining the practical reasons why many Indians opt to remain abroad permanently. “It’s very HARD to return to India because life is much better in US and Europe,” he wrote, listing over a dozen reasons that make life overseas more appealing.
Among the advantages he cited were higher salaries, reliable public infrastructure, safer living conditions, and stronger social safety systems. “Higher paychecks and better living; Reliable basics: 24x7 power, clean water, fast internet; Merit-centric workplaces over ‘who-you-know’ games,” he explained.
Ankur also emphasised how overseas environments often provide more employment opportunities for spouses and better education systems for children - free from reservation constraints.
“Safer streets, cleaner air, stronger social safety nets; Kids can go top-tier schools without quota gymnastics… Easier global mobility with a EU passport down the line,” he added. For many, the financial benefits, such as savings in dollars and stock options, further enhance long-term wealth potential.
On the other hand, Ankur didn’t shy away from pointing out the challenges in India that push talent away. His list included widespread corruption, bureaucratic delays, poor urban planning, and safety concerns - particularly for women.
One of his most pointed remarks focused on women’s safety: “No safety worries for women after dark – 99% Indian women never want to come back permanently.”
Summing up his views, Ankur stated, “Magnets abroad feel stronger than the anchors at home and hence as an NRI it’s an emotional yet balanced decision most of us have to make.”
He further added that visiting China would offer a reality check on how far ahead it is compared to India.
The post has since triggered a range of reactions.
Many users supported Ankur’s perspective, calling it “accurate” and “on point.” One user wrote, “Nailed it Ankur. Perfectly tells the state.” Another commented, “It will take time, but it is slowly but surely getting better.”
However, not everyone agreed.
One user countered, “I live in a village with 24/7 power, renewable energy, clean air, affordable fast internet… Most of your points stand inaccurate.”
Others pointed out rising crime rates and challenges abroad, particularly in parts of Europe and the UK, due to issues like phone theft and illegal immigration.
